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Mmmm

Oh, I could not wait to sink my teeth into this question:

“Was Mary quiet and submissive, or very assertive?”

You can read my answer at BustedHalo.com.

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Annunciation by Henry Ossawa Tanner

Birthgiver of God or mother of God?

I get some fascinating questions through the BustedHalo Question Box, and this one was no exception:

“Shouldn’t the proper term for Mary be the ‘birthgiver of God’ instead of the ‘mother of God’?”

What do you think?

Because of the format, I have to keep the answer short, but believe me,  I could have written volumes about this. There are a few ways to approach this question, and I tried to touch on all of them, but for me, the answer really comes down to this:  Anyone who has been in the mothering business knows that “mother” is a verb as well as a noun.  It’s a state of being, of doing, of acting.  And mothering doesn’t stop when the kids are old enough to dress themselves, to fix their own meals, to strike out on their own.  At the age of thirty-seven, I still rely on my mom to prop me up through the bad times and celebrate with me in the good.   At the age of thirty-three, Jesus relied on Mary for the same things.

Yes, Mary gave birth to Jesus … but she was also, memorably and beautifully,  His mother.

Image: Madonna and Child by Giulio Romano

Ask and you shall receive!

Have you ever wondered:

What is a Marian apparition?

When Joseph decided to “divorce  Mary quietly,” why didn’t she get mad?

What does the Council of Ephesus have to do with Mary?

Click on the links to get the answers!

And if you have a question about the Blessed Mother, submit it to the BustedHalo Question Box! I’ll answer any Mary question, even if you feel stupid asking it (and remember what your elementary school teachers always said:  There is no such thing as a stupid question.)  And if you have questions about other areas of faith (Catholic tradition, history, ethics, etc.), you can submit those, too.  I won’t tackle those, but other writers will.

And just to brighten your day, here’s a lovely picture of the Madonna and Child.  I don’t know about you, but I always find that a great moodlifter.

Our Lady of Japan holycard from HolyCards for your Inspiration

Freezing-cold summer evening grab-bag of randomness

(How’s THAT for an unwieldy title?)

1.  Yes, it’s still chilly here. I have worn flannel pajamas every night since returning from New Hampshire, and from the way the wind is howling outside, I will not be breaking the trend tonight.   The cold summer is a major topic of conversation around here these days.   I don’t think anyone  settles in crowded overpriced earthquake country for weather like THIS .

2.  I think Matthew is starting to understand the concept of states, and countries, and distance.  This morning we were talking about New Hampshire.  “It’s really far away,” he said.

“That’s right,” I told him.

“If you walked there,” he observed seriously,  “it would take a really really long time.”

Thank God for air travel.

3.  I’m currently gloating over the fact that I bought a dress at J C Penney’s today for the paltry sum of $29.99.   It’s really cute, and fits amazingly well, and has enough coverage that I can wear it teaching.  Plus it is washable (huzzah!) and dark enough not to show sweat stains, which, I have learned over the years, is a prerequisite for most teaching attire.   No matter how chilly it has been all summer, it is guaranteed to become sweltering hot the minute that school starts again.   That is how it works.

4.  If you want a little dose of Mary today, you can check out my latest answer on BustedHalo.com. It’s all about being a good son, and about having a great mom.

Off to make some tea (hot — not iced).

Question for the day …

Is it bad to pray to Mary more than Jesus?

What do you think?

I weigh in on BustedHalo.com.