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Random Bits of Momness: Friday edition

1.  Is there any nicer feeling than the feeling you get on the Friday of a three-day weekend?  Ahhh.  While I’m on the subject, blessings on all veterans, past and present!

2.  Isn’t this a charming painting?

It’s called Bubbles, and it’s by the Victorian painter Sir John Everett Millais.  I remember seeing this painting when I was a child, and it was nice to encounter it again during a  Google Image search for something else entirely (don’t you love the serendipity of the Internet?).  It captures the sense of wonder that children have … don’t we all need to be more like a little child in this regard?  (I also  like the picture because bubbles figure prominently in my new book, too, both in the content and on the cover.  There’s something so evocative about them.)

3.  Fall has, at long last, come to Northern California.  The 80 degree weather of earlier this week has been replaced by rain and clouds.  I’m ready for it; there is something profoundly unsettling about sandal weather in November, which always makes me think of global warming and the melting polar ice caps.  But now, there is a lovely snap in the air.  

4.  Speaking of fall: have you ever tried the pumpkin pancake mix from Trader Joe’s?  It’s heavenly.  It’s amazing with maple syrup, but when you have it with warmed fresh cranberry sauce … well, if I didn’t already believe in God, I think this would be enough to convince me.   If you live near a TJ’s, trust me: go get a box and try it.  You’re welcome.

5. I was at the bookstore the other day, and was utterly psychologically unprepared for the sight of Christmas decorations.   And then I realized that if Thanksgiving is two weeks away, can Christmas be far behind?   I guess I’d better start looking for cute little holiday vests for the boys to wear.

Have a fabulous long weekend!

Random bits of momness

1.  Happy Ash Wednesday!  (That sounds odd, doesn’t it?  Maybe “Blessed Ash Wednesday” is better.)    In keeping with the day, here’s a great little two-minute video from BustedHalo.  They do a wonderfully succinct job of explaining the meaning behind the day, and even got me reflecting on Lent in a new way.

2.  Remember that housecleaning post I did a few weeks back?  I’m happy to report that our house is looking neater than ever before.   I think this is because I’ve made cleaning more of a priority than I used to, and because Scott is now willingly pitching in to help.  (We’ve also started demanding more toy pickup from the boys, which we should have done a long time ago.)   This house will never be mistaken for the set of the Martha Stewart show, but it is amazing how much even a half-hour of intensive cleaning/organizing can help.  (It’s also amazing how much  more relaxed I feel, without those bathtub rings gazing at me reproachfully.)

3.  “Downton Abbey” is over.  Sniff.  The withdrawal is  painful — it’ll be a whole year before I find out what happens with Mr. Bates, and whether Mary and Matthew really do pull it off, and before I get to see whether poor overlooked Edith ever finds her man.   It is amazing how involved one can get in the lives of people who don’t really exist, isn’t  it?  (Thankfully, Scott gave me this book for my birthday, which is supplying me with a much-needed DA fix.)

4. Speaking of books, I was thrilled to be interviewed recently by Lisa Hendey about my book Mary and Me.   You can check out the interview on CatholicMom.com.  ( More info about the book — plus a PDF guide of book club questions — is available at this blog page.)  It makes for great Lenten reading!

5.  Since I think that  any day is better with a little Mary in it, here’s an image to lift your spirits.  It’s from a window at Sacred Heart of Jesus parish in Boulder, Colorado, where we attended Christmas Eve Mass.    Beautiful, isn’t it?

Have a blessed Lent!

Three reasons to smile

1.  Thanks to all of you fabulous readers who weighed in with your house-cleaning tips last week.  You have given me much food for thought.  And since I’m promised to give you updates on how things are going, I’m happy to report that Operation Family Clean got off to a roaring start last Saturday morning.

After a suitable period of relaxing over breakfast, coffee, and episodes of “Curious George,” Scott and I announced to the boys that we were all going to pitch in and clean house!  And it was going to be fun!   Apparently we stink as motivational speakers,  because Luke regarded us solemnly and then proceeded to keep doing exactly what he was doing.  We let it slide.  (You get away with so much when you’re three.)

Matthew, happily, had a little bit more intrinsic motivation, namely the fact that his best preschool buddy was coming over to our house for dinner for the very first time.   He did a respectable job of cleaning his room, stowing things into bins under the train table.  So what if the Matchbox cars got all mixed up with the Thomas engines and the puzzle pieces?  There is a time to get hung up on the details, and a time to be grateful that you can, at long last, see the floor again.

Scott and I were the real stars, scrubbing and vaccuuming and dusting and finally getting around to moving old unused baby gates out to the garage. It was like the “Whistle While You Work” scene in Snow White, minus the dwarves and the woodland animals.  And the house looked great afterwards.  Overall, it was very, very nice to have a helper in my housecleaning endeavors.  It removed my put-upon martyr-Mom feelings and gave me a chummy sense of camraderie with Scott.

The downside?  I got zero grading done that day.   I guess something always has to give.

But at least the floors are clean!

2.  Yesterday, I was honored (and totally stoked) to find out that my article Between the Covers: On Loving Books in a Digital Age was chosen by the BustedHalo editors as one of the Best of 2011.   (I guess I’m not the only one who prefers to read on good old-fashioned paper pages!)     At any rate, it’s a piece that is very close to my heart, so this means a lot.

3.  Bad news: someone stole the Baby Jesus out of the manger at our parish. Good news: it inspired a fabulous homily from our pastor yesterday, who took us on his own journey from anger to reflection.  He finished with the great insight that God is something we don’t have to steal.  God is freely given, always, to all of us.

That’s a very nice thought for a Monday morning, isn’t it?

This, that, and the other

1.  Oof.  Am I losing it?  Tonight as I did my usual evening transfer of boys, coats,  lunchboxes, and bags from my car to the house, I inadvertently left my teaching bag on the front step.  I didn’t realize it was gone until literally hours later, when I was searching for my laptop and couldn’t find it anywhere.  Clearly, Mama needs a vacation.  (Stroke of dumb luck: it wasn’t raining tonight.  Phew.)

2.  After a gorgeous summer-like October, we are firmly in fall mode around here.  It was actually cold last weekend, and I loved it … it was so cozy to put on my new flannel pajamas at night, and I’m thrilled to see the trees turning color.  It’s California color, which is far less spectacular than the photos I’ve seen of my in-laws’ New York home in fall, but we are getting some change  (witness the Japanese maples in our backyard, above).   And it makes me happy. (Speaking of leaves, check out this wonderful post by my blogger friend Fran.)

3.  Matthew, at age five, is Schoolhouse Rock’s newest, biggest fan.  The album is playing all the time around here now, and I have to say, it’s pretty fun to see him get so into songs about interjections, conjunctions, and No More Kings — all those tunes I remember from my own childhood.  And if he hasn’t yet memorized the Preamble to the Constitution, he’s darn close.  (It’s not unusual to hear that song ten times in a row, which is the problem with giving your child temporary executive control of the remote.)

Last night he said to me,  “Mommy?  When I first heard the Preamble song, I didn’t like it.  But then I listened to it some more, and now it’s my favorite.”

“Matthew, isn’t that a good lesson about how we need to give things a chance before we decide we don’t like them?”  I asked pointedly.  (I’m a teacher and a mom.   I couldn’t help myself.)

4.  Have you noticed my new little sharing plugin at the bottom of each post?   If you like something you read here, it’s now super-easy to share it on Facebook, Twitter, Google Plus, and email!  (Click on the arrows on the left to get to the email icon.)  So share away!

Another feature:  if you are looking for a book to read for your book club, what about Mary and Me?  Check out this  printable PDF file of reading group questions (it’s a great preview of the book, too!).

5.  Okay, I’ll admit it: I’m totally hooked on Dancing with the Stars.  It’s a joy to watch people who are so  athletic and graceful, because I am neither.  (Seriously, there are exactly two people in the world who think I’m a good dancer, and I gave birth to both of them.)   Plus the costumes are fun, and I love seeing all the different styles of dance.  Great stuff.  (Go J.R.!)

6.  I was reflecting earlier today on church, and community.   We’re making the trek into San Francisco for Sunday Mass these days, largely so that the boys can attend the preschool catechism they offer at our church there.  I have to admit, it’s tough to have a commute on Sunday mornings too, especially when there are churches so much closer to home.  But this is the parish where Scott and I got married, and where the boys were baptized; it’s the parish where Scott works, and where we know someone in nearly every pew.  And that sense of community matters to me.    It’s like the song for Cheers: sometimes you want to go where everybody knows your name.   It’s a joy to worship with people who know not only our names, but also our history.  It’s worth the commute, even on Sunday morning.

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